July 3, 2025

Ep166: What You Don’t Say Is Hurting You: How Anonymous Expression Can Free Your Mind

Ep166: What You Don’t Say Is Hurting You: How Anonymous Expression Can Free Your Mind

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You’ve built success. Maybe even wealth. But behind the wins, do you ever feel like your mind won’t shut off... and your heart feels distant from your own life?

In this real and refreshing episode, we sit down with Courtney Stanfield—former TV broadcaster, mom of three, and the creator of Air Out!, a mental wellness app designed for people who feel everything but say nothing.

Air Out! is a private, anonymous venting space for high-achievers, parents, and professionals to release the thoughts and feelings they’ve been trained to bury. With no names, no filters, and no judgment, Courtney’s app is helping people finally breathe again—and get to the truth beneath the performance.

If you’ve ever told yourself “I shouldn’t feel this way” or “no one would get it,” this conversation is your permission slip to let go of the weight. You’ll learn why silent suffering is common among successful men, how expression heals the nervous system, and what happens when you finally stop pretending everything’s fine.

📓 Workbook Moments:

1. Raw Release Prompt:
Write one thing you’ve been thinking lately that you’ve told yourself isn’t “safe” to say out loud. Don’t filter it. Let it out, just for you.

2. External Validation Check-In:
Where in your life are you waiting for someone else to validate your voice, before you allow yourself to speak your truth?

3. Emotional Load Audit:
List 3 thoughts or emotions that aren’t truly yours to carry. Who do they belong to? What would it feel like to set them down, even for a moment?

4. Expression vs. Performance:
Reflect on the last time you shared something vulnerable. Was it filtered for approval? What might change if you allowed yourself to express without fear of judgment?

5. Reparenting Insight:
What messages do you want your children, or your inner child to hear about emotional honesty? How can you model that today, even in a small way?

Connect with Courtney:

Website:  airoutapp.com

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